I'm AFAB and have recently been starting to experience social gender dysphoria I believe. I'm still very mildly comfortable with being female, but it doesn't feel exactly correct. I've been looking at different genders and none of them seem to fit well, though I haven't tried anything out yet so I might test the waters with a few in my friend group. When I was younger I often asked what it'd be like to be a male. I can't tell what gender fits me since there are so many and I don't even know where to start. I sometimes wonder if I'm genderfluid or genderflux but I can tell I'm not since there are no changes in what I'm more comfortable with. It started with just my pronouns, which currently the are now She/Her, They/Them, and He/Him. I don't really care what pronouns I'm called out of those three, I also feel like I don't care that much about what people think my gender is. Even when I was younger I was fine with people thinking I was male. I'm just so confused with what I could possibly be.
What's on your mind?
I know there is a term for this, but i can’t seem to find it again for when you feel both feminine/like a woman and non-binary @ the same time? it’s not demigirl as it’s not a disconnected feeling, rather a feeling of both there at the same time. I know, while bigender fitting the criteria, isn’t exactly what i’m looking for.
Anybody have any ideas?
Im genderqueer and i like my birthname and dont want to get rid of it, but i also really like the name harley. am i allowed to use both?
And if there is a term for not knowing the diffrence from romantic and sexual attraction pls tell what it is.
Well- I am new to this topic but for a couple of days now, i'm really not sure what are my pronouns or gender. My situation is that I'm a girl, but I don't feel like it on 100% and not like a boy, I don't know if it's "non-binary" or something- I really need help. Often because of this situation I want to cry or I really feel bad ;-; There are a lot of these here on wiki but I am just not sure, I need help from someone that knows a lot about it- thanks qwp
I'm AFAB but i never really paid any attention to my gender until my mom started trying to force me into being female by forcing me to wear earrings too be considered a girl (I know not only females wear earrings, boys, non binary and other people do too but it bothered me because she considers earrings to only be for women and it's kinda like that in my country) So since it bothered me so much i used to think i was trans (FtM) because i never really acted female but then that didn't really feel right, so i thought i was a demigirl or something. but then that didn't feel right either. Now after a long time of being confused i noticed that sometimes i feel masculine but not fully male, and i barely feel feminine but i kinda do (Like feminine but not really feminine) but most of the time i feel nothing, but i don't exactly feel agender either. So basically being called 100% female never really feels right, neither does being called 100% Masculine or agender, but sometimes masculine, rarely feminine but not really feminine, and most times i feel nothing, sorry if this is poorly explained i suck at explaining stuff, and it's cold here so idfk anymore. i just wanna figure out what i am. I found a few things that could be me though, Like Grey gender, Paragender (Paragirl possibly) , Genderflux, Genderfluid, Agenderfluix, and terms similar to those. I also can't decide between she her, he him, or they them along with two other neo pronouns, so i'm even more confused
I have mostly identified as genderfae, but my gender is not really fluid. I like my femininity, but I like being seen as androgynous and prefer being called by they/it pronouns. help? (Im afab if you need to know)
Let's start with gender:I feel connection to demiboy but I don't feel comfortable identifying as demiboy I also feel genderless(or agender)but definitely NOT a girl
Next is sexual orientation:I am probably just demi-omni but I'm not 100℅ sure,I'm attracted to all enbys (and enby gender identity)I feel huge attraction to girls and demi girls and I bearly feel attraction to boys and demiboys but it's definitely there.im also comfortable identifying as ace
Next is romantic orientation:I am probably panromantic but again,im not sure.i feel romantic attraction to everyone equally BUT sometimes it changes (it doesn't change very often but I can definitely feel when it changes)
I currently have a crush on my girl bestie
I go by they/it/he
I'm lithsexual as well
Thank you for your help <3
so my gender is fluid, but i don't feel comfortable with the term genderfluid
also, my gender is never make or female (or even related to them) so-?
also i dont feel the need to change my pronouns to fit my gender at any time (my pronouns are they/them/theirs, fae/faer/faers, and ve/vaer/vaers)
anyone know lables that'll fit it? (currently i just use non-binary)
Ok so I am so confused I have identified as genderfluid for a long while now and I think I'm wrong I always feel like I am agender at the same time as any other gender I feel and even when I'm feminine I still get dysphoria because.of my breasts I've looked into the term Librafluid is that what I am? cause no matter how strong I feel towards a gender I still feel like I'm not fully that gender or like I am always agender anyway I'm probably just genderfluid or something else and confused anyway idk I would appreciate help/an answer but I can question for longer ig XD
(I think) Cassfluid is a gender where your gender isn’t that important, and the level of how important your gender is changes, but is there one where your gender changes, but you feel it’s not important for you with all of them. Or did I miss what Cassfluid means?
Hello im back everyone XD so hows everyone´s day ?
I am in a body which is AFAB. I feel quite masculine most of the time, but different amounts at different points. Some days I believe I am a trans male. I sometimes feel agender in addition to feeling masculine, and sometimes only feel agender. I also often feel a small amount of femininity but never large. My gender proportions often change depending on the people surrounding me, especially if those people are my romantic partners. Being with animals/ plants often makes me feel more masculine.
I am so sorry to bother anyone and if you don't wish to read this feel free, however anyone that could help would be greatly appreciated, as I am very confused right now, and cannot find anything that seems to accurately describes me:)
Hi!! So I’m an AFAB with Autism, and I use she/her pronouns. I’m fine with being referred to as a girl, woman, female etc… Especially when asked, but I have a feeling of discomfort and anger when I’m addressed as just a girl or woman.
I see myself in women, I can relate to them, but do I view myself as one? Not really. I don’t feel like anything. I’m just me. I am okay with these terms, but i feel like they are really restricting/confining me. I do experience dysphoria when it comes to my chest, I wish it was flatter. But other than that I’m totally fine with the way I look, i even wish i looked more feminine.
I have thought about the term Maverique but I was put off by people saying that it’s just “personality.” And I also feel like it still didn’t explain how I felt.
I don’t know, I see myself in girls, I present myself feminine, I feel feminine, but I feel like I am something more than that, it doesn’t define me. I do not at all feel masculine or neutral, it distresses me and I really do not like masc or neutral terms.
I’m really confused. Am I just cisgender with an individuality complex?? I don’t care about being an individual or standing out, i really don’t, but gender wise, being recognised as just a girl frustrates me so much! D: could it have something to do with my autism?
So, i was born as a normal girl but i dobt feel fully ,,girlish". Dont say im demigirl, i also feel kinda ,,boyish". i feel like im bigender bit not sure,i was wondering if there is a gender that defines me better
Umm so i feel like demigirlflux and agender fit me very well currently so like can you be both or is there another label i can use?
So I was born a female. I feel like I want to be a girl/ I'm meant to be a girl(?), but when I look at myself I see a 'what' or a 'how' I don't feel like a girl and I don't KNOW what I feel like. I don't feel like a girl but I feel like a girl, but not?
If you can understand my little confusion that'd be really nice!
Okay i need help with this soo
Basically i feel like i have two genders (female and male) and nonbinary at the same time but i dont know if its like aporagender or any other label? can someone help?
Okay so! i need some help aha
I feel like im agender yet,,, somehow not?? like occasionally i go through periods where i think i might have some base form of a nonbinary gender. however, the agenderflux label just,,doesnt click???? idk your guess is as good as mine