i don’t mean to be posting about my situation a lot but it keeps changing and you can’t delete previous posts-

(copied from a comment i made and slightly edited

I’ve been thinking about it for a while, and maybe I’m a demiboy or androx? (I’d use demiboy more often for simplicity because androx fits the definition of demiboy, technically. (as in, partly male, partly something else.)) I’m DFAB and i feel only kind of comfortable with it, like i’m okay-ish with she/her pronouns and the “down there” thing. However, I dislike having breasts, well, not as in “dislike,” but as in “I feel like these were just glued onto me and they are not natural,” feel comfortable using he/him pronouns, want a masculine name, and prefer androgynous or masculine clothes heavily over feminine clothes. (I know clothes have nothing to do with it but I thought i’d include it.) If anyone is able to point me in the right direction or just tell me the best fit term that I could use, that would be great :)

I came to this wiki in search for a definition of what I believe i am but taking how some definitions are pretty hard for my spanish brain to understand I think I'll just ask over here.

I've been born as a female. I don't really enjoy it.

Some months ago some fellow schoolmates confused me as a boy and I liked the feeling! It felt good when they called me "he". I've sorta tried looking more masculine since. Cutting my hair, getting less feminine clothes.

But there's some times when I slightly like being a girl. Usually it's just a minimum feeling, and whenever i feel like that I still like being masculine.

Or also the times where I don't really care. Those moments have been more frequent recently, such like "wanna call me a girl? sure i don't mind. calling me by he/him? go on i guess. In the mood of calling me by they/them? if you want, i won't worry." But I still like being recognized as masculine.

I've been considering either genderfluid or demiflux, but either i don't fully understand them or don't think they quite match what I'm feeling.

So, my question is: Taken what I've said here, what could i be?

I thought that the Androx/Gynx flags were really difficult to draw/replicate, and since I wanted to include the Androx flag in a drawing of mine, I decided to propose my own version! And I included a Gynx version for fun :) (They will be in the comments because I can’t figure out how uploading images works on this site.)

I was born female, and I feel comfortable with being female and using she/her pronouns, but I also feel a little bit male at the same time and am comfortable with he/him pronouns. I also feel this weird neutral part in my gender too, but I don't feel very comfortable with they/them pronouns. I identified as a demigirl for a while, but now I don't feel comfortable with that anymore. This is completely confusing to me, and if anyone can help me figure this out then please do.

I'm new to the whole other genders thing, and almost everything I've seen on here is completely ridiculous. There is scientific evidence for the existence of trans people, but how can someone identify as dead? It makes no sense! Can anyone give me some evidence or at least a reasonable explanation? I hope I don't sound offensive.

So a friend of mine presented to me his gender identity recently.

He defines his gender as "trans-dead".

He says that transgender people want to be a gender which they are not born with. A trans-dead person is someone, by his definition of his gender, who wants to be dead but is currently alive.

That is the gender he identifies with and he asked me to make a request for it to be added to the gender wiki.

Kind Regards

Cinder Shadow

I was just wondering, is there a term for feeling a certain gender based on how other people perceive that individual? i.e. If someone perceived a certain person as a girl, then they would feel like a girl, if someone perceived that person as a boy, they would feel like a boy, or if someone perceived that person as non-binary, gender-neutral, an androgyne, etc. they'd feel like that? I'm a cis-male, so I'm not asking because that's how I feel, I'm just curious as to if that phenomenon has been recorded to have happened and if a term for it has been given.

I've been having troubles with my gender identity for some time. For a long time, I never thought about identifying any other gender then... the one I was born with (I'm AFAB). But ever since last month, I've been feeling slightly uncomfortable with being referred to as a "woman". This made me feel slightly sad too, because, I've always identified myself as a lesbian, and I thought if I ended up identifying another gender than woman, my (and my girlfriend's) lesbian identity would be a lie, and that really stressed me out. As my stress with my identity started getting worse, I started to interact with people who were having the same experiences as me, and then, I found out the term "nonbinary lesbian". At first, it confused me, I'll be honest. How can you be "nonbinary" yet be a lesbian?

Then, it was described to me by a few self identified nonbinary lesbians. They said they don’t identify as a women, consider themselves to be on the more feminine end of the spectrum.They feel comfortable within the lesbian community, identify with femininity, and they are attracted to women and feminine-identified people. I was shocked because this almost PERFECTLY how I felt about my identity. So, what are your guy's opinion on this? Should I start identifying myself as a nonbinary lesbian?

I need help coming out to my semi-homophobic parents. im 13 and bi. and i wanna wait till im 15 but i still wanna find a way to do it. Any ways you did it or found a good way

i was born a female.but i always act boyish like swearing, starting fights, beating up my friends when im mad lately. my hair is nearly looks like a avarage boy hair. i hate my breasts, they make uncomfortable. but i have no problems about my vagina. when i had my perioid i even hated being a female more. because i was born a girl people exept to take care of myself very often. but i take showers about 1 time in 3 days even if im in my puberty. i hate taking care of myself tought, i think its a waste of time. i never care what i eat even if its unhealty or make me fat. since i was small i always think that gender steriotypes are stupid . in my kindergarden i wanted a hot wheels playset instead of an barbie because i hated dolls but my teachers got mad at me and gave me a barbie. i wear androgyne clothes like sweathers and baggy things.when i look at the mirror i look like both male and female but sometimes that changes. i have alot of female friends and im really glad that i have them even they sometimes complain about me being lazy, rude and nasty. but when we went to the mall i always want to go to the shops where theres food fun stuff etc. but they stay in a clothing shop for like 1 hour and it makes me want to jump of a window. in my school i always wanted to join the boys group but i never talk to them because they would think im weird and they already hate me. sometimes i have a slighty will to do some feminine things tho. i have been trying to find my gender for 3 weeks now and still havent got a clue about it. i have so many options but i cant the right one. i donk think im transgender, maybe non-binary? idk. i hope you guys can help me, thanks for your support already!

okay so i’ve came out as ftm transgender and i haven’t been feeling like a boy, i’ve been feeling like a girl. but in the future i was thinking of going on low T and maybe getting top surgery, does that still make me valid?

I made a gender spectrum of being male/female to agender. Please tell me if I got anything wrong.

FEMALE

Female (100%)

Paragirl (99 - 51%)

Demigirl (50%)

Librafeminine (49% - 1%)

Agender (0%)

MALE

Male (100%)

Paraboy (99 - 51%)

Demiboy (50%)

Libramasculine (49% - 1%)

Agender (0%)

One can be Girlflux/Boyflux if their identity fluctuates along the spectrum. Being -flux is not a gender, but rather a state of being and fluctuations. In my opinion, I find para- and libra- to be gender identities than something of an actual gender itself.

So, I'm in a confusing spot with how I express that I'm unsure I "fit" a gender.

I was born female and most people recognize me as female and I go along with that fine.

I use all pronouns (not changing between, all simultaneously)

I dress as a male but no one recognizes me as a male.

And it's not that I'm trying to identify as male, but I'm not trying to be a female neither. I'm not trying to identify as anything! I just express and its a thing! I'm really confused. Sometimes I feel I shouldn't even try to find "what I am" and just accept that I am ME, and that ME is a *person* who *kind of* "genders."

Can you help me identify my gender? I have quite a hard time pinpointing it. So I'm biologically female, but starting from my teens I'm feeling uncomfortable with it. I'm feeing more comfortable wearing male clothes and I like to crossdress, but wearing skirts and make up is also ok with me. Usually I am thinking that it would have been better to born a male. It's not just about my mindset, but also about my body. Well most about my body. I mean I hate my boobs, I'm feeling disgusted even thinking about pregnancy and I definitely don't want to be a mother, although I guess if I would be a male I could accept the notion of being a father. So according to that I would say, I'm transexual, but I'm not that into women. I won't mind having sex with another woman, but I prefer man. And I'm more or less convinced that even if I would be a male I would be bisexual or gay. So I'm really confused. It feels like I'm a bi or gay man in a woman's body. So what do you think?

Okay, so I've never felt like my birth sex (female). For a while, I identified as non-binary,and for a while, that felt like it fit. Until it didnt. I started to feel like a girl, but also felt like boy. So I started identifying as bigender. That seemed to fit. Fast-forward a few weeks later,that didn't fit anymore and I came back to non-binary. Fast forward maybe a month later-and that didn't fit anymore. I felt kinda, sorta like a girl,but still felt non-binary,so I thought "maybe I'm a demgirl" ,and that kinda worked for a bit,but it doesn't anymore. It just doesn't feel right. I'm thinking that I'm possibly genderfluid or genderflux to put another label on it again too quickly, and afraid that my gender will change again and ill feel unvalid and like a liar. I'm just not sure anymore.

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I have decided my gender- bigenderflux! Does anyone thinks this fits me?

I'm having some trouble with my gender- I guess that was obvious if I'm opening a discussion :)

Basically, I always identify as female, but sometimes I also feel slightly male- probably libramasculine- as well. However, when I don't feel like that, I just feel entirely female. I still use she/her pronouns either way.

Does anyone know if there's a definition for this?

I just wanna know what gender I best fit. Ok first of all, my sex is male. But I do like some of the things the females get to do, as I like long hair, but people tell me to get a haircut all the time because "I'm a boy" It's really annoying and I think girls are lucky. Anyways, I also took an online test calling me a woman, but I am not girly in all sorts, as an example I do not usually watch TV shows directed torwards girls. I have also had people tell me I was a girl but those are just jerks trying to get on my nerves. So do any of you have a guess of what I am? Please tell me!