Yo, agender trans dude that also uses neopronouns here i wanted to tell yall that ur extremely valid!!
What's on your mind?
I think I'm an Agender girl but have no clue at this point. Right now I know that I got by anything EXCEPT for he/him. Before, I thought I was a demigirl but then I realized I liked neopronouns too. I'm not sure what this is because no sources ever really say if liking multiple pronouns along with she/her, but not he/him, count as demigirl/agender girl
So lately I've had a bit of dysphoria about my gender. I am afab, and usually go by she/they pronouns, but idk if I really identify as a demigirl or cis. I'm usually really chill with pronouns too, like if somebody calls me "he" I kind of just dismiss it and don't care. I'm relatively comfortable with my body (breasts, figure, etc.) but sometimes have wavering thoughts about what's in my pants (such as periods), but nothing too serious. My aesthetic is also pretty open to all kinds of style, masculine or feminine, and I guess I'm more of a bruh girl personality-wise.
I really don't know where to turn, so if anybody here can help me go in the right direction, that would be great.
I was questioning my gender back in July, then i left in the dust in august after thinking “yeah no it’s just my gender expression (sort of androgynous) that’s making me think about this”. A month goes by, and now I’m thinking about it again. Some character in a game i play experienced some dysphoria and me being a huge trans ally was like “omg no i feel for you!” And then i realised how i had reacted. “...why though?” I had never experienced any sort of dysphoria (maybe some mind dysphoria but not sure). I’m pretty empathetic so that’s why i reacted that way. But even so, it got me thinking.
I’m afab. I thought i might be genderfluid (between GQ and female) or a Demigirl. Back in july i flipped between both labels before settling with genderfluid, but still staying closeted in case i changed my mind. And i did.
So now I’m back to square one again. I know this is a constant process, unfinished, but i honestly wish some all-knowing being just handed me a piece of paper that told me what i am.
I'm not sure if I'm Gender-Fluid or Bigender. I was born a girl but sometimes I'll identify as a boy. I'm getting kind of confused with all of these genders!
I'm pretty sure i'm agender, but then so many people around me think that there are only 2 genders. I also still experience dysphoria, so, is that okay or is that something else entirely??
what is the gender where it is a gendered feeling but not male or female. i need it cause i've seen it but can't find the name or flag
I don’t really know which label fits me, but i’m afab and go by they/she/he pronouns. Some days I don’t feel comfortable being a girl, and feel more neutral or masculine, and other days i’m alright with being a girl, sometimes I feel alright with my chest, and other days I want it gone. i’m most comfortable identifying as non-binary though. I’m not exactly sure what label fits well with this, but if anyone could help me I’d be grateful, thank you..
I was considering myself a fem-androgyne for a bit, but i actually feel a bit more masculine when expressing myself like in clothing and stuff, but when talking about sex i feel more like a woman than a man? can someone help me find a term to what i feel?
Well idk the term where my pronouns are they/she/he
I left a note in my mother's book. Its now morning and time to see how she takes it. I told her to keep it private in the note, so, hopefully, she'll listen. That was the most stressful day of my life. Yay!
Recently I have been thinking more about gender identities and I need a little bit of help.
I don't really mind what pronouns people use for me (can be he/she/they) but I feel more of an attachment towards feminine things. Could someone help me find out what this is called?
Well, for around half a year now, I haven't felt the same feeling about my gender and pronouns as I did before. I feel comfortable with people referring to me as 'she/her' or a female, but I don't feel as if I am one. Just recently, I found I was homosexual, of course being that I like girls, and don't feel any sexual attraction to men, which had me thinking. My counselor told me that I should maybe research genders and pronouns after I told them that I didn't feel right as I was in my body. And I have. But I can't really get my head round which gender I am. I started off with looking at bigender, and then transgender, and them demigirl, and genderfluid, but I don't know which I am.
As I'm going through puberty, and having my periods here and then, I've started feeling really agitated about my chest. I don't want to grow breasts, I don't want to have body parts which people could use to assume that I identify as cisgender. I honestly don't feel right.
I need help - so if any of you patient enough to read my rant post have any advice for me, please give me it in the comments. I would really appreciate it.
Uhh so basically up until like a month ago I was fine with she/her pronouns. After a lot of thinking, I've realized I actually don't like she/her pronouns and they make me feel kinda bad :/ but i don't think they/them is the correct fit for me although I much prefer it to she/her and I'm not comfortable with he/him. I started using she/they but I really hated the she part so I switched to any pronouns but people kept calling me she/her because that's all they knew me as. I still somewhat female but I just hate the she/her pronouns. I might look into neopronouns but please leave suggestions bc I'm a little confused
2 days until my coming out (October 11th). My dad has recently shared queerphobic things to my mother (I don't know in specifics, but dad had said "wow in modern society 50% of people would be offended by this" and my mom replied with "Well XXY people exist too, and very rarely XY!") so I will only tell my mother to not harm me or my parents relationship. I don't want them to fight because their child was born trans.
I need all the strength I can get right now. My birthday wish was for next birthday it would be for Sam, not Gwen. Thanks for the help everyone, and farewell for now.
Sooooooo, I came across this thing called veragender, but I'm scared to talk about it to anyone because it says it's not yet accepted by the trans community. I also feel like I might be Caedogender, Foggender, Genderdisordered, or Pendogender, but these are neurodivergent genders and nobody understands them. I'm scared that if I am one of these genders nobody is going to accept me. I'm worried because I feel a strong connection to Genderdisordered but I feel like no one will accept me or everyone will leave me. I need some way of reassurance that I'm valid because I feel like I will never be accepted.
um!! idk my gender,,,,,,,,,,.. im afab and 13 years old :b i dont like my chest, but i wanna dress feminine most of the time........ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sooooooooooooo. I have dysphoria sometimes and I think I might be gender fluid but IDK because I don't feel MALE, I just don't feel me. I feel wrong. but like I still like to wear what is considered girl clothes and I like to do my makeup but I don't like being called She/Her pronouns. I'm soo freakin confused and I don't know what I am.
Uh hi, I’ve recently started to identify as gender fluid but, I’m never fem? I’m not comfy with she/her pronouns ever and I’ve heard of Genderfae so I was wondering if there was a thingy like Genderfae that excludes fem identities?
Im slightly confused about my gender, im a cis female and i do identify with she/her but i feel uncomfortable a bit about my gender? Sometimes i wish i was born male but i dont feel dysphoria over it and im comfortable with my pronouns. Im thinking i might be a demigirl or something similar but im not sure as i feel id be closer to inbetween female and nonbinary? Im sorry if this is weird ive been thinking about it for a while and have never typed about it or said it out loud.