So I am currently trying to find out my gender identity, and its really stressing me out, so could you guys help? I am completely fine with any pronouns, and I like many things considered "masculine" such as sports, but I also enjoy many things considered "feminine" like make-up and such and such. Is this an actual gender identity or am I just a cis who is over-thinking their gender?
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So I was Afab, I dont like my chest and I dont really care if I woke up a boy or anything else, I never cared a lot about gender until recently, because I wondered what I was, but now I dont care again, what could I be? Please help
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A few months ago I figured out my sexuality right and that made me feel amazing like I found a place to just fit into the worlds puzzle. And then in came the Identity Crisis.
I have come across a few identities that I thought at the time fit for example Demigirl, non-binary, agender, then once again non-binary, then I wondered if I was gender-fluid and identified as that for a few weeks but once again it didn't feel quite right. I went back to questioning if I was non-binary, then Demiflux, Deminonbinary, currently I am questioning Genderqueer.
I've never really felt like a girl but on some days I don't mind presenting as one. Most days I like to look more masculine but I never really feel entirely male. Sometimes it's really faint in a way and others it's like nope I ain't a female, and I'm just a person. The lines tend to blur a lot for me and I seem to change a lot in a way.
The pronouns I'm most comfortable with is He/They. I just want to feel like a belong somewhere instead of just floating. Would anyone be able to point me to some pages that might help me?
Thank you so much.
It’s me ya boi- My gender identity has been up down and all over the place. I never really felt like I was a girl but I still like feminine things and use she/her (I use all pronouns but still) so that cause d me to repeatedly try to tell myself that I’m a girl or a Demi girl or anything related to the female gender because I couldn’t quite grasp that fact that just because I like to wear skirts doesn’t mean I’m a girl. After getting over that whole thing I’ve started to come to terms with my gender. I currently identify as gender queer because it’s just the best label that fits me at the moment. I use all pronouns, sometimes I present feminine, sometimes masculine, sometimes neither. So I’m just confused out of my mind. So a little help is needed- I hope y’all doing good because I’m really not, anyways bye
I am Bisexual
But when i look in the mirror i sometimes look like a boy based on the way i dress and there alot of boy characters/ personalities i relate to (like idols, game characters ect)
Im a girl, i love to be a girl, love to dress like a princess i love girly accessories and things, but i also find certian types of boy clothes very fashionable (flannel shirts are my fav) and sometimes when i cosplay i look like a boy or when i hide my hair i look like a boy
Would this make me
Genderfluid
Demi Girl
Or
Bigender?
Or is there a Flag/ term that shows Bisexual and am a Girl but has different feelings and choices to feel like a girl or boy? there are so many flags the LGTBQ+ Community is truly wonderful
I also have a LGTBQ+ Friendly tik tok friendly friends too
U can follow me there if u would like
The username is the same as my Wiki name
I've read both pages and am a bit confused as they seem quite similar.
So basically i am a guy who is into non-binary, this question has been bothering me for a while. What is my gender, asked a bunch of people i could find didn't get any answer asked google didn't seem to get any proper answer so i thought to ask here, hope someone can help. What is my gender?
Hey everyone, I hope you are having a wonderful day. So I have come here to ask you, as well as come for your advice, about some things that are part/related to this magical part of live call ✨figuring out my/our identity✨. As I have seen, it seems to be very complicated and chaotic than I thought it would be so I come in peace for you all to help me (like plz I need your help, I am desperate hahaha🙁).
First of all. Questions.
How do I figure out my gender/identity? I have done test and though about who I wanted to be but I can't figure out because I am always changing my mind.
How to difference between trans, genderfluid, bigender and non-binary?
What are some signs that may tell you that you might be trans?
How can I make people treat me as myself and not only focus on how I express?
And that's it for the questions. Tips & other stuff would be welcome :)
Second. Help, presenting myself (and the problem) by bullet points because I am too lazy to right it with coherence.
AFAB. Uses They/she pronouns, but I am more comfortable if they call me by my name.
I did a couple of tests (+100?) and this are supposedly my gender identities (not in order): genderfluid/genderqueer, bigender, trans, female to male crossdresser and non-binary.
The way I dress is not girly at all its more like an androgenous style (I guess). I asked my mother how I dressed as a kid and she told me that really boy-ish and I barely wore dresses/skirts. I was more of a leggings and comfortable clothes person.
I wanna take a glance into the future to see who I am going to be. There is a fear I have that is that I am scared to realize I am trans when I am old, and I have nothing left to do/live for.
I am a female yes but sometimes I hate it, there has been time that I wanted to rip out my lower part because I found it disturbing. And that was when I wished I had male genitalia or other stuff so I wouldn't think about that.
I wish I had two bodies so I could switch whenever I wanted. Or at least I wished for me to have a period of time where I was a boy (I have dreams where there was a day when everyone changed of gender so Females are Males and viceversa)
I sometimes find my gender useful for what I am wearing and other not. (I have a tiny bit of problems with my body since I was little)
And finally, I don't wanna be trans because I am scared I will regret later on in life and I will be seen as fake or just wanting attention.
Hi!! im a genderfluid bisexual and i have no clue what slurs im allowed to reclaim besides fa**ot.
im gonna vibe here maybe and revert vandal edits, otherwise you may know me from the lgbta+ wiki
hi um you don’t have to answer but i had a quick question regarding being partially non-binary... when someone asks who/what you are and you are supposed to respond with “girl” or “boy” what would you say? i’m not trying to be rude or anything i am just curious because i want to start to get comfortable for using these terms for myself. yeah
Because here I was being all confused and then I found there are like three things I identify as.
I'm so grateful to whoever made this wiki and coalesced all these terms in one thing, and I'm really happy that not feeling like I'm 100% female but still identifying as female is a defined thing that other people experience. And that being a tomboy and sometimes feeling like a boy or slightly agender is okay.
I feel like i might be ftm but im still very feminine and i dont 100% want male parts? like i wanna be a dude but i dont know if i would wanna make a ‘commitment’ to get male parts. and i’ve seen stuff saying that if youre ftm you cant be feminine afterwards which is confusing because thats just who i am.
I've been trying out genders since November and now I'm questioning again.
I get gender euphoria when I do/have anything masculine with me and discomfort when I get addressed as anything feminine.
In addition to that,
I do not feel like a man or a woman. but I DO feel a bit of a man.
What could these characteristics fit in?
Ok so im afab, i generally feel like my assigned gender but i enjoy she/they pronouns, or really anything other than he/him. i dont think i have dysphoria, im just not really sure.
I am a male and i like females but i feel like sometimes i want and feel like a female and i cant find i gender that fits me. Can someone help
I was born a girl, but I feel like, umm how do I explain it? I think i identify as a girl but also non binary and male aswell. I feel more masculine but sometimes I feel a bit girly, and then I feel like I dont really have a gender at all. I've been tied between being genderfluid or a demigirl for awhile now, and I haven't really been questioning my gender until early 2020 when I learned about how there are more genders outside of male, female and non binary.
Could someone help me out? Like just say something that could help me get on a path that may help me learn my gender?
Also, at the current moment, I go by she/he/they pronouns.
The more i learn the more im confused with myself y’know? in female, and i like being female n stuff. i like being feminine, i like feminine stuff but part of me wants to be a boy and the part keeps coming back like every month. but at the same time i still want to be a girl? i was thinking maybe non-binary but that doesnt really describe me. i thought maybe demigirl? but im kinda confused on the definition for that.
The more i learn the more im confused with myself y’know? in female, and i like being female n stuff. i like being feminine, i like feminine stuff but part of me wants to be a boy and the part keeps coming back like every month. but at the same time i still want to be a girl? i was thinking maybe non-binary but that doesnt really describe me. i thought maybe demigirl? but im kinda confused on the definition for that.