So I've been really confused and I don't know what to identify as. I personally don't know if I believe that gender exists. Like if clothes, accessories, and just objects in general don't have a gender attached to them (like a thing can't really be "girly", it's just what it is) and genitalia doesn't define what gender you are, then I'm not sure I know what does. Does anybody have any insights or explanations that could help me find my definition of gender because I'm just really confused. Like I feel comfortable in things that have been stereotyped as feminine (I was born female), but that's only because I know that people that are masculine often find that attractive and I feel comfortable when I am perceived that way. Like I have no idea what things I would like if we lived in a world that didn't attach gender to objects.