2 days until my coming out (October 11th). My dad has recently shared queerphobic things to my mother (I don't know in specifics, but dad had said "wow in modern society 50% of people would be offended by this" and my mom replied with "Well XXY people exist too, and very rarely XY!") so I will only tell my mother to not harm me or my parents relationship. I don't want them to fight because their child was born trans.
I need all the strength I can get right now. My birthday wish was for next birthday it would be for Sam, not Gwen. Thanks for the help everyone, and farewell for now.