So I recently I have come to terms with my sexuality but for a while now I have been struggling with my gender identity. I was born female but I have always been called "tomboy" because I have short hair and most of the time I don't like wearing skirts. I feel a bit like I have three sides, one masculine, one feminine and one androgynous. For ages now I feel like my androgynous side and my feminine side have been fighting and sometimes I feel like I am a she/her but the rest of the time my name and pronouns give me dysphoria and I feel like I want to be referred to as they/them. But that isn't all the time! So I am really confused. I don't know wether this is a real thing or wether I am just doing it for attention because my sibling came out as non-binary earlier this year.