Okay, so. I'm still uncertain on what my gender is, but I know that I fit under the genderqueer umbrella and that I want to be referred to by gender neutral pronouns. However, I'm really worried about telling my family as they may ask why but I won't have an answer because I still don't know my gender. Plus I've been referred to as she/her and a girl all my life, so they may have trouble changing - even if they try not to get it wrong. And as all of the rest of my family are cis and straight, I don't know how they'll react so I'm scared (even if they've never spoken against the lgbta+ community).
Does anyone have any suggestions on ways to do it? If so please tell me.