Hey, I'm Tess(pseudo) and I'm currently questioning my gender identity. I don't know which term I should use or if I'm even a gender besides female, but please use they/time when refering to me. I don't want to ask anyone in my family to use they/them pronouns because I don't want to get attacked, be told it's just a phase, or be told that I'm too young to question these things. I was born a female, and I am most definitely female sometimes, but other times, I feel like I'm not a girl. Please, I need some help on terms, pronouns, and coming out as gender questioning.