Hi my name is gio, my pronouns are they/xem, and i am very much confused with my labels. i know exactly how i feel about my gender but i don't know my labels and i really want to know so i can have a sense of control with myself. so my gender is best described as agender with a dash of femininity, a dash of xeninity, and a very strong rejection of masculinity. my gender isn't fluid at all, its pretty static, which makes it harder because id easily label myself as afemmafluid if it was fluid. the other closest label is librafeminine which i didn't really like because i felt like i had to know how feminine i was to label myself as that because the femininity levels for that was pretty fluid. theres also genderfae which i like for its rejection on masculinity, but my gender isn't fluid so thats out of question. then i descovered the gender systems, which honestly overwhelmed me because it was so many different labels with the same meaning and i couldn't really wrap my head around it but i used the galactian alignment system and found penumbrian. i really like that one but i feel like my agenderness outweighs my femininity and xeninity so it doesn't feel that right. so i thought i would be agender x and just replace the x with penumbrian which im labeling myself as now with agender-penumbrian. but the agender x definition is different depending on where you look. the definition for some of them is that it falls somewhere in between agender and another gender, which isn't how i feel, i feel like both agender and penumbruan at the same time. sooooo is there a label that can fit me? will i have to make my own gender? am i overthinking this? someone pls let me know i just want to feel some peace with my labels.