I’m afab and use they/them pronouns and i’m still trying to figure out my gender identity.
I have always identified as a girl and i’ve been fine with it but lately i’ve been questioning if I really am a girl. I feel so much more comfortable with not being called a girl or being referred to with she/her. I first found the label girlflux and I thought it fit me pretty well but then I just started to identify as genderqueer because that was easier.
I feel like a girl and a boy at the same time and at the same time none of those. That’s how it is for me with most gender identities I read about. I’ll be like “that’s how i feel! but at the same time not” and then I just get stuck.
I also feel like my gender is fluid. And it’s also hard because I feel somewhat a connection to every gender identity I read about. Is that what pangender is?
I also felt a very strong connection to the label ambonec since I feel like both a girl and a boy and neither at the same time. But i also feel like a demiboy and demigirl so what does that make me?
When I think about my gender identity for a longer time I always get stuck and ask myself “what does it feel like to be a girl? what does it feel like a boy?” and i just can’t get anywhere so if any of you could help me with what label could fit me I would be very thankful.