Hey there, as the title says, I am unsure of what I am and I think I need some opinions to help me find out.
I was AMAB but my personality is mostly feminine and I originally thought I might be bigender, but after some more research I learned about paragender/paragirl and thought that that might be a pretty good fit, but again, I was not sure, so I asked one of my friends to help me decide, and I'll copy what they said below:
Yea, bigender is like 50/50
paragirl just means someone feels more feminine, but it does not feel right like once a month
Can't really explain it because I am not any of those but that's about it
(asked for an additional explanation)
Like they mostly feel like a girl but
sometimes they feel like anything else
You are going into the depths of gender fluid people here
What really confused me here is that they said "but sometimes they feel like something else" because the wiki page doesn't mention being fluid / varying / etc.
From my understanding, it means "one's gender is 51%-99% feminine all the time" and I think they understood it as "one's gender is feminine 51%-99% of the time".
I really have no idea which one of us is right because I've only learned how this works like 3 days ago and they've known they're agender for like a year by now so I figured they must have a lot more experience and knowledge about this than me.
TL;DR: I was AMAB, my personality is mainly feminine, the rest is masculine, it's static / it doesn't change. What do you think I am? Because honestly the more I looked into this the more things that I don't understand showed up and the more confused I got.
PS: Thank you for taking the time to read this and for any feedback. Definitely feel free to ask me for more info if you need it as, again, I am absolutely new to all of this and don't know much about it.