That is wonderful! I am so proud that you found a term that fits you! That is absolutely wonderful I hope everything keeps working out and about your last post it is ok to not be ok with each type of the word I guess I can kinda understand how you feel I don’t like being called a girl even though it is literally in demigirl but I don’t mind being called a lady if that makes sense but it will begin to work out and you will find how you want to be referred to I promise! It will be so good soon I am so proud of you! You are wonderful and I hope today is as wonderful as you!
SAMI!!!!! I am so proud of you! I am so exited! Things are already getting better! You are so heading in the right direction! You are wonderful! I hope things keep going amazing!
That is amazing! I am so happy for you! Social media is a great place but there might be a local LGBTQ+ center near you that might have great resources I don’t know how far your local LGBTQ+ center is but social media is always a great place there are so many influencers that create a environment that you can meet amazing people in some influencers also focus on the LGBTQ+ community so I think it would be a great place to start! I’m so proud of you! You are wonderful!
I am terribly sorry I have not gotten a chance to reply sooner I could not find a time away from my family or anybody it is human to be scared and remember that please we as humans can sometimes overthink things but please don’t come out if it is not safe I know it is hard I honestly want to too but please know that National coming out day would be wonderful but if you are not ready just wait it will be ok I promise one day it will all be ok please keep fighting for that day I know I don’t have much to tell you but remember you don’t have to come out face to face or you can ask your parents to come to you when it is a good time for them you are wonderful and if you do decide to come out on National coming out day please update on how it goes
Honestly you are going to be the only one to fully understand your gender and it is ok if that takes time you should look up the terms bigender or any of the others that were suggested bigender is basically what it sounds like identifying with two genders but please take all the time you need you will figure it out even it it takes years and please don’t mind sounding weird I’m pretty sure we all are here or at least I am a good place you could find androgynous clothes it hot topic I mention this store too much but they typically don’t entirely sort stuff by gender and they have women’s button ups it might be a good way to experiment but still stay in the “women’s” clothes also please don’t think that if you identify as male you have to have a typical transition you don’t you are wonderful and you will figure it out one day I promise it will all be ok!
That is absolutely amazing! I hope this term continues to describe how you feel but never be afraid to change it! I will always be here and hopefully everything keeps working out! It might seem hard right now but keep fighting! You are absolutely amazing and life will take you so many places!
Hello! So a good term that you may want to look into is Demiflux or demifluid they are two different genders and I don’t feel that I know the difference well enough to be able to give you clear examples but I am pretty sure they both refer to part of the gender fluid spectrum (please correct me if I am wrong) keep exploring though! You are wonderful and you will find the perfect term!
It is ok not to know your gender I promise no matter how long it takes one day you will find it you are so amazing and I know one day life will be so good it is ok if you say I don’t feel like one gender and I’m not sure what gender I am and saying I just know I am gender queer it took me so long to find a term that I felt connected to and actually said I should look into different genders and you are doing so much earlier than me and I am so proud of you it is a very hard path and others feelings can get in the way please keep fighting to be yourself and please take your time the world will always and can always wait and no matter how long it takes you it will be ok I promise I know it seems like a struggle now and it is but one day it won’t! it will be so good one day keep fighting wonderful!
I am so sorry I absolutely despise the thought that everything is in girls and boys. I don’t think I have any idea of what you should do. My best suggestion is to give them a nickname like my name is not Lee and absolutely nobody outside of this website knows me as Lee but it is apart of my full name if you could find a place that connects to your name but sounds more masculine it might help or even your middle name would work if it makes any sense keep fighting wonderful I promise it gets better and hopefully we can make the world a better place in the process you will get through it I promise and one day it will be so good
I am so happy that you found a term that works! Please never feel bad about how you identify someone once said gender is like shoes you may have worn size X five years ago but the size X shoes prolly don’t fit now think of it like this sometimes with different brands different sizes fit you and all brands are cool so you often go “size to size” if that makes any sense gender in the end is a way for others to better understand you but honestly I love a good mystery every once in a while don’t be afraid to be one! I am so proud of you! You are wonderful! Just keep being you and don’t let anyone change how you feel about yourself!
That is absolutely amazing! I am so glad that you have found a term that fits you! You are wonderful!
That is amazing! Don’t be afraid to question your gender! Take as long as you need! I am so proud of you! You are wonderful!
You should look into gender fluid genders basically what gender fluid describes is a person that flows through different genders no matter how fast or slow it occurs you might not fully identify as gender fluid but it might be a start even if you can’t find the perfect term it is ok please don’t feel pressured to quickly find a term to explain your feelings the world can wait so take your time you are wonderful and you will find the term that fits you best I promise!
I am sorry to say I don’t really have an answer for you I feel like gender is more along the line what you feel never ever decided your gender off of what others think is real I find it absolutely crazy to think only what I think is real is real it is a crazy mindset to have although I do believe that you can both transition and still identify as non-binary if you feel that nonbinaryflux fits you well you are more than welcome to use the term please never let others opinions change you! Never be afraid for your identity to change either we as humans are always evolving and to be honest it is ok! I know I don’t have the answer for you but you will find the right term even if it takes you time to decide! You are amazing keep being you!
That is absolutely wonderful! You will always be welcome and loved here! I have only been here for a few weeks and I have learned so much and I hope the same for you! It is so nice to have a place to disconnect from the world and have the opportunity to be yourself! There are some really nice people on here that always have good information! Keep doing you, you will one day find the best word to describe you take all the time you need!
I think @SamsonProud put it well you probably are not faking it and don’t worry if it is hard to come out to yourself we live in a world where different genders are not completely normalized it is also ok if you preference they/them but don’t mind she/her one thing you could do is when telling someone your pronouns say you use they/she people will notice the they first or think of it as your dominant pronoun hopefully if that makes any sense in terms of knowing and identifying your gender demigirl is completely vialidad I also identify as a demigirl and you should also look up the terms demiflux and demifluid I don’t think I know enough to well describe them but they are also completely valid I hope you come to accept yourself it will get easier and better one day I promise and you still have time please don’t feel pressured to understand it all tomorrow I hope this helps you are wonderful and it will get better one day
Yay! I am so proud I love how you want fro transguyneedshelp to SamsonProud! I guess Samson welcome again keep doing as you do! You are wonderful! I hope things keep working out!
You are wonderful and valid! Please don’t come out if it won’t be safe you will always be valid and there are people out in the world ready to love you for who you are one day you will be safe and you will be able to tell your parents everything and maybe it won’t be perfect but you will be you even if it is not safe to do that today one day it will the world is always changing and evolving find yourself a good outlet and some other things that help me is music and quotes just keep being you, you will get though it one day it might seem like a constant fight and battle you are stronger than you know and you can get through this I believe in you I promise it will get better one day keep fighting to see the light you are wonderful! I hope this helps! Keep fighting
You are amazing and I am so sorry for everything that you go through sometimes the world can suck to be in if it makes you feel any better my sister curled my hair the other day and when everybody left I broke down and you know that’s ok you will never be alone sometimes looking at yourself in the mirror in middle of a breakdown and saying you know what you are valid and it is all ok I see you we will get through this can help but having an outlet can help too I tend to use dance as an outlet it helps me detach from the world around me and move anything creative can help I also find myself often writing poems and quotes one other thing you can try is turning on music and just being listen and be with the words I really like the song Trying My Best by Anson Seabra I promise it gets better just keep fighting you will be where you want to one day I hope I helped I will always be wishing the best for you I promise it will get better just keep fighting through the days
I am so glad that you have been able to come out to some people! Although I have yet to come out I want to try to help you the best that I can! If you have already came out to your sister ask for her help even if you want her to just sit there and hold your hand anything can help! Also if you feel like one of you parents might be more accepting come out to them first and ask for their help too! Also I have though a lot about ways to come out I am a very socially anxious person and words seem hard when I am not typing them so maby try to text them and give them an explanation of how you feel and ask them to start the conversation and let them know you are open for any questions also another thing to do is say tomorrow I am ordering my binder very confidently and if they try to change your mind don’t let them (this might just be me and my “humor” but I would have a family move night and watch Pinocho and at the end be like I want to be a real boy now) looking up local LGBTQ+ centers that are in your area might help too! I know I probably am not much help but I am always here to cheer you on! Samson is an absolutely wonderful name!