One of the definitions of greygender is that one’s feeling of gender is weak, but it doesn’t say you have to be non-binary
If you still aren’t comfortable with the label though, here’s some suggestions (idk if you’re male or female so I’m putting both fem and masc terms here)
Maybe demigirl or genderqueer?
It sounds like you friend is pangender or something similar
Sometimes they don’t use the exact colors
Here’s a comparison
It sounds like abrogender and polyfluid may fit you! I’ll separate terms that may also be fitting :)
Usually half 1 gender and half all genders, the 1 gender changes
Sometimes half 1 gender and half another gender
Sometimes half 1 gender and half of most genders
Sometimes half 1 gender and a quarter of another
One gender on rare occasions
Gender is affected by environment
Yep! You can be a genderqueer demigirl :D
Sounds like you’re genderflux, and you may be outherine since your gender is just…there.
You may be gender non-conforming or genderqueer. Do you not feel female?
There are a few, such as trixic, feminamoric, womasexual, gynesexual…and straight or course. There’s a lot of terms, but it doesn’t matter which one you choose to identify with as long as you are comfy with it!
Maybe genderfluid, genderqueer, or GNC? And it sounds like you may be apagender but keep in mind that apagender is not a gender. It just defines someone who doesn’t care what gender people perceive them as.
It sounds like you are genderfluid between male, demiboy/libramasculine, agender, and librafeminine/faesari. You may want to check out boyflux too, if you go from male to agender to male.