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Hi! I was thinking maybe I could help? I want to help, and you seem nice, but I can only get back to you Wednesday-Monday. Can that work? I could message you on Wednesday and help, maybe?

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Londancow·7/16/2021

@Oh.rubie @Uncertified Funny Thanks, I'll check out the pages! Sorry for the horribly late replies.

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Londancow·7/8/2021

Was it on this wiki, if so do you know the article name?

Londancow·7/8/2021 in General

This is a cry for help

I was born female but I feel more masculine than anything else. But recently I've been feeling more of a mix between being male and non-binary (preferably using It/It's and He/Him).

I decided to look at multiple articles like Bigender and Polygender. When I was looking at the Polygender article, it seemed pretty fitting! But I have a question, is there a gender label for someone who jumps back and forth from being completely gendered to being non-binary?

I had been thinking about identifying as genderfluid but never using female (I feel 0% afab) but then thought about Bigender but knew it was mostly between male and female only, so I felt hopeless.

Please help, SOS T-T''

PS. Sorry about my sucky grammar.

Non-binary Genderfluid Bigender Man Polygender

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Londancow·7/8/2021

This is a late response and it might not help at all since I suck at helping people, but I think if you're trying to fit into a label you could say 'genderfluid but I mix'? Like, for example, one day you don't care you can just tell people 'today I don't care' or if you're feeling more female just say 'I feel female today but it doesn't matter for pronouns'?

I would say look up how you're feeling on Google (or whatever search platform you use) and look at as many articles as you can. That's what I've been doing and it really does help.

Sorry this probably doesn't help, as I said, I suck at communication. But hopefully it does help, at least a little.