I get the he/she/they/it ones, literally use three of them myself, but I need help getting neopronouns. I know what they are, and how they work, but I'm curious about some of the common/uncommon ones.
What's on your mind?
I also posted this on the agender page, but I will post here too.
I need help.
Whenever I try to think what gender I am, I have no clue. Nothing. Just question marks.
What does it feel like to be a girl? What does it feel like to be a boy? I thought this feeling was me being a girl (I used to identify as genderfluid), but now I am not sure.
I am okay-ish with she/her pronouns. I am okay-ish with dressing like a girl.
But I would most definitely prefer to be seen as either a boy or androgynous. If I were born as a boy (i am afab) I would want to wear more feminine clothes sometimes, but still identify as a male. So I thought transgender, but deep down, I have no clue. I am me. Gender? No. (this makes no sense, i know)
I listen to this poem yesterday and felt 'This describes me perfectly! I am demi-boy!', but as of today it is like 'I am agender!'
Every time I accept myself, I feel like my label changes.
Why do I even care sometimes? I feel like if the world didn't have gender then I would be happier so I didn't have to stick to one side.
I feel like this is more of a rant then a question, but am I agender?
Sorry you had to read this mess of a post. lol
I have struggling with my gender because I know what my gender is, but I don't know the term for it. I thought I was girlflux, but that identity didn't quite sit right with me because though my gender fluctuates, my gender fluctuates from demiboy to girl. Are there any terms or umbrella terms I can use? I've been very conflicted with trying to put a name to my identity, so any help would be greatly appreciated!
I've never felt fully a girl and sometimes feel unconfortable with that name, but I am confortable with having physical feminine characteristics. currently I'm kind of obligated to go by she/her because there is no they/them in my native language (Italian), though I feel I would definetly "try" they/them pronouns (not he/him though). help?
Hello! I recently discovered I was Agender and I posted here in hopes another Agender person could tell me if, from my explanation, they thought I was Agender or not.
Finding Out (this took about 4-5 days)
So I never really gave it any thought but then one day I did. "Huh, I don't really feel like a girl." Which was weird, because I was a girl. I didn't feel like a girl or a boy. I didn't feel anything to those two terms. Nothing. So I started talking to my Non-binary friend who went through their own self-discovery time. They asked me questions and helped me. In the end when I didn't say I felt like a man or a woman, they told me I was most likely Agender. So I stuck with it. Then I was starting to doubt myself a little so I looked a little more into it and found this next part:
People who identify as agender may describe themselves as one or more of the following:
"Gender neutral. This may be meant in the sense of being neither man or woman yet still having a gender."
"They can also present in any way - masculine, feminine, both or something completely beyond the binary."
↑I'm genderfluid in gender presentation (not sure if there's a word for that but that's how I put it)so yep
Got it form:
Now let me elaborate:
"Genderless or lacking gender."
I don't feel like a boy or a girl. I feel nothing when I am related to those terms. I don't feel empty, I just don't feel any feelings towards those words when they're applied to me. "I am a girl." No security or confidence in saying it to myself. Same with "I am a boy." Just nothing. But genderless felt wrong to me. I felt like I needed a gender identity, that I had one but I just didn't have a name for it. Then I saw "Gender neutral. This may be meant in the sense of being neither man or woman yet still having a gender." and went like "Oh, that's totally me!"
I'm a bit of a wonky person but I'm mostly normal. Sometimes I'll want to dress feminine (skirts, leggings, stockings, etc. but not dresses because those are cold). Sometimes masculine (pants, t-shirt, shorts, etc.). Sometimes I don't give it any thought at all. Sometimes I just throw on some random clothes and waltz around proudly.
This gave me all the confidence I needed and now I'm sure I'm Agender. But if anyone else who's Agender is reading this, can you tell me if you think I'm Agender or something else?
I've been having a hard time lately trying to find a label that I feel okay with using. I feel connected with both agender and non-binary. I don't know what label describes that. And I'd feel better with a label that I feel fits me.
*Sorry for any grammar or spelling mistakes, it's 2 AM and I'm tired
I'm needing some help here because I'm currently handling 5 gender identities(?) and I wanted to know what would be better for me or if I can be these things all at once?
Currently, these are either the ones I'm sure about and the others I'm questioning
Bold: Sure about this identity
Not Bold: Questioning/Unsure
I've experienced a lot and I feel like my identity is something I'm struggling with after a few months. I know some of these are umbrella terms but I just need to make sure if it's fine for me to be many things at once without something deemed "contradictory". I think that I can be all of these things but I just want validation.
So, to get straight to the point, I’m trying to figure out if I’m cisgender or not. I don’t feel a lot of dysphoria, normally, but some things make me uncomfortable, like my chest (50% of the time) or the idea that I’m only a girl. I don’t mind being a girl most of the time and enjoy dressing feminine sometimes, but there are moments where I really don’t. So I’m wondering if it’s a problem with my actual gender or not. I currently use she/they pronouns and I feel pretty good when referred to as they, but I don’t think I’m nonbinary.
I’m also not necessarily the person who wants a label just to be on trend or to have a label, and I take it quite seriously which is why I don’t just want to jump to conclusions and change my mind later. I’m just not quite sure if my feelings qualify as dysphoric, or what to do about it, or where even to begin. Any advice or opinions are super appreciated :) Also, if any of this came off as rude or anything, I apologize, it wasn’t intentional.
What would be my gender if I identify with she/they pronouns?
I feel that my gender is the entire gender binary spectrum in one. I've been having a hard time finding a gender label that decribes me. I dont experience dystopia but feel that my body doesn't accurately describe me. What am I?
Hi, i'm Nex.
Well the thing is that idk what's my gender
It fluctuates between, demigender, demiboy and demi girl
There's some times that changes very often and sometimes it take a lot of time to change.
Someone knows what it could be?? pls
So I like to dress in a way that’s not 100% feminine, but I like to show maybe a little bit of femininity at the same time. I don’t know how to identify myself… I don’t feel like I’m 100% a female, I don’t feel like I don’t have a gender at all, and I don’t feel like I am 100% male either, but I feel in between all 3, but more feminine and “beyond the binary”, what is this called?
Im afab and I feel female and somedays I feel male but not enough to say "i want a d*ck" more like i want a flat chest and to dress more like a guy. So ik im not cis but if im not what am i? if this makes ANY sense to anyone can you please leave me some ideas? THANK YOU ;--;
so i'm definitely just nonbinary, right smack dab in the middle, and AFAB, so when people refer to me as a "he" i get euphoria, and i want to start going by they/him but i don't want to be perceived as male, and why is everything so complicated aaaaaa.
How's everyone been since i was gone? (assuming you knew who i was)
I really hoped it wouldn't come to this but here i am folx !!
I have a question, can you be agender, nonbinary and masc-something? like, at the same time?
EDIT: also trans fits me a lot in the broad sense of the word
If you don't wanna answer that, here's drawing i did to compensate for your wasted time :)
So I thought I was a demiboy, but last week I didn't feel like one. I kinda felt more like a girl, but at the same time I didn't feel like one. I felt really comfortable being a demiboy, but now it feels like it doesn't fit. And since yesterday or saturday I've felt like my gender didn't really matter, but I still want to know what it is. I did a little bit of searching and found a few, but I'm not sure what fits me best right now. I know pronouns don't equal gender, but I've decided I want to try out she/they/he.
If you have any ideas please let me know!
hi so I'm experimenting with she/they pronouns could someone make some sentences using those pronouns thanks :]
So im questioning my gender right now. i feel fluid but not entirely. i shift between boy and girl and all the genders in between, but never entirely a girl. for ex. one day i feel like a boy, the next i feel bigender, the next i feel like a demiboy, then the next i feel like a paragirl. i never go non binary/agender though. is there a name for this? if anyone can help it would be greatly appreciated! <3
And 2nd can you expereince mental attraction toward friends.