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Pendogender is defined as never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits, usually due to self-doubt. This causes one to compulsively seek out something that fits better. This can also be called gender perfectionism. This gender is for neurodivergents only and was coined with anxiety disorders, OCD and OCPD in mind. Pendogenders may also identify as affectugender or neurogender.
”Pendo-“ can be used as a prefix for the identity that gives one the most satisfaction, like “pendoboy“, “pendogirlflux”, ”pendoagender”, or others.