Xumgender is a gender identity that refers to those who never feel satisfied with their gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues. Those who identify as Xumgender compulsively search and seek out a term that fits perfectly. Despite the fact that one’s gender will never be found due to one’s neurotype, words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt may even cause this gender to feel imperfect to the individual. Xumgender can associate with Anxiety, OCD, and OCPD.


This term was initially coined by ademcshades on Tumblr.





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